Hey guys, Im back! After taking a mini-break after finals, I am ready to blog! I apologize for not being able to post anything the past week or so, but I have been busy wrapping up the end of the semester and whatnot.
I would like to begin by congratulating those of you who have completed your fall semesters of this year. You should be very proud of yourselves, and hopefully all the hard work and late night studying paid off for most of you. In my case, being that I am a freshman, I am now 1/8 of the way done with college! That kind of sounds scary though haha. Hopefully, everyone did well on their exams and final papers, and can now relax for the next month or so to recharge those batteries that I am sure are drained.
But lets examine some things that we can do on break:
1. Reading- I know that you guys are probably going to think I am crazy for suggesting to read during your holiday break, but I don't mean any school reading, I mean leisure reading. If you like animals, pick up a book on environmental studies, or if your a history wiz read up on Mussolini's fall in Italy. Just by reading what you enjoy, you not only stimulte the mind, but develop a deeper vocabulary which is crucial. Trust me, reading can be fun!
2. Sleeping- Most of you guys are exhausted physically and mentally from a long semester, so I suggest sleeping as much as you can. Getting at least 8-10 hours of rest a night is definately healthy for anyone's body.
3. Family- Spend time with your family and friends that you haven't seen for a while. Rekindling lost friendships and relationships is a good way to keep the ones you love closest to you. Call an aunt or cousin and set up a lunch date. They will appreciate it.
4. Enjoy Yourself- You are on break!!!!!Have fun. Be safe.
Monday, December 21, 2009
Wednesday, December 16, 2009
Olive Oil = Healthy Living
Healthy Eating with Olive Oil!
Adding olive oil to your diet — and cutting down on other, less healthy fats — can be part of a healthier way of eating. In fact, doctors and nutritionists commonly recommend olive oil as a component of a smart, well-balanced diet.
he adage "you are what you eat" is especially accurate when it comes to what kinds of fat you eat. Too much of any fat (saturated fat from animals, polyunsaturated fat from nuts/seeds, or monounsaturated fat) is a problem, of course. But certain kinds of fat, particularly saturated and polyunsaturated, can contribute to health problems because they can raise cholesterol levels. Olive oil, a monounsaturated fat, does not increase cholesterol levels. In fact, a diet that includes olive oil in place of other oils has been clinically proven to improve cholesterol levels.
Saturday, December 12, 2009
Jersey Shore's "Situation"
Yes, I know this is a delayed commentary on MTV's new reality show entitled Jersey Shore, which follows the lives of 6 coined "guidos and guidettes" at Seaside Heights, for the end of summer, but I wanted to watch a few episodes before I can give an honest opinion. There has been an uproar in the Italian American Community, as groups such as UNICO and NIAF have signed petitions to potentially have the show removed from the air. Although there is a very small chance of this happening, I can understand why these organizations are upset.
A guido is a term that symbolizes a blowout hair style, artificially tan skin, abnormally large muscles, and a lifestyle that involves, alcohol, women, and clubs. Although they can "pump fist" with the best of them, this choice of living really is not something to be proud of. If they think they are acting Italian in any way, shape, or form, they are mistaken. Most of the characters on the show said that being guido meant representing family and the Italian culture, but I have seen neither of that. Does using expletive language and getting into fights really represent family? The answer to that is self explanatory.
With that being said, I have come to realize that you need to take this show with a grain of salt. It is all staged, and you have to understand that its just a big joke. Instead of getting upset over it, just laugh about it. SOme of the things they do is quite comical! My favorite character is by far Vinny, as he parallels the closest thing to a true Italian, but he is still far from it.
In conclusion, I would not try to get the show cancelled, because the first amendment in our US Constitution is the freedom of speech, press, and religion. MTV has decided to air this show, they are supporting this lifestyle, so be it! I'll continue to watch for the good laughs and "The Situation"
Thursday, December 10, 2009
MUSIC!
Hey gang:
This is a random, yet informing message! Go on your facebooks and friend request the new emerging rap group called "9.0.8" Ask to be the groups friend and they will accept so you can listen to their songs! Check them out! You will love them.
Enjoy,
Stef
This is a random, yet informing message! Go on your facebooks and friend request the new emerging rap group called "9.0.8" Ask to be the groups friend and they will accept so you can listen to their songs! Check them out! You will love them.
Enjoy,
Stef
Wednesday, December 9, 2009
I graduated college. NOW WHAT?!
After graduating college, most young adults go off to live on their own in small apartments or developments. They are unaware of the responsibilities of paying bills, balancing a budget, and maintaining overall finances. I stumbled across this great article on MSN Money which gives a brief overview of handling your money while you are in your 20s. Enjoy!
http://articles.moneycentral.msn.com/CollegeAndFamily/MoneyInYour20s/Your5MinuteGuideToMoneyInYour20s.aspx
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Tuesday, December 8, 2009
Talk the Talk, Walk the Walk
In my class today, my professor posed a question to all of us. Do you agree with Obama's decision to increase the amount of troops in Afghanistan? Once most of the class answered YES, my professor posed a follow-up question. Would you be willing to be drafted to fight in Afghanistan? Our mouths were silent. We had no answer.
The point my professor was trying to make is that many people take a certain stance on something, but never act upon it. People oppose racism, but what do they do to stop it? I am blogging today to call on those people who do feel passionately about an issue to make a difference. Act not only through their words, but their actions. I will admit I am adament about issues such as immigration and racism, but I really do not do much to create change.
Its about not only talking the talk, but walking the walk as well. I hope this challenge allows you to think outside the box, and really focus on what needs to be done to better society.
The point my professor was trying to make is that many people take a certain stance on something, but never act upon it. People oppose racism, but what do they do to stop it? I am blogging today to call on those people who do feel passionately about an issue to make a difference. Act not only through their words, but their actions. I will admit I am adament about issues such as immigration and racism, but I really do not do much to create change.
Its about not only talking the talk, but walking the walk as well. I hope this challenge allows you to think outside the box, and really focus on what needs to be done to better society.
Monday, December 7, 2009
Don't Drink & Lecture
A new priest at his first mass was so nervous he could hardly speak. After mass, he asked the monsignor how he had done. The monsignor replied, "When I am worried about getting nervous on the pulpit, I put a glass of vodka next to the water glass. If I start to get nervous, I take a sip."
So, next Sunday, he took the monsignor's advice. At the beginning of the sermon, he got nervous and took a drink. He proceeded to talk up a storm. Upon his return to his office after the mass, he found the following note on the door:
1) Sip the vodka, don't gulp.
2) There are 10 commandments, not 12.
3) There are 12 disciples, not 10.
4) Jesus was consecrated, not constipated.
5) Jacob wagered his donkey, he did not "bet his ass."
6) We do not refer to Jesus Christ as "the late J.C."
7) The Father, Son, and Holy Ghost are not referred to as "Daddy, Junior and the Spook."
8) David slew Goliath, he did not "kick the sh*t out of him."
9) When David was hit by a rock and was knocked off his donkey; don't say he was "stoned off his ass."
10) We do not refer to the cross as the 'Big T.'
11) When Jesus broke the bread at the last supper he said, "Take this and eat it for it is my body." He did not say "Eat me."
12) The Virgin Mary is not called "Mary with the Cherry."
13) The recommended grace before a meal is not "Rub-A-Dub-Dub; thanks for the grub - Yay, God."
14) Next Sunday, there will be a taffy-pulling contest at St. Peter's, not a peter-pulling contest at St. Taffy's
So, next Sunday, he took the monsignor's advice. At the beginning of the sermon, he got nervous and took a drink. He proceeded to talk up a storm. Upon his return to his office after the mass, he found the following note on the door:
1) Sip the vodka, don't gulp.
2) There are 10 commandments, not 12.
3) There are 12 disciples, not 10.
4) Jesus was consecrated, not constipated.
5) Jacob wagered his donkey, he did not "bet his ass."
6) We do not refer to Jesus Christ as "the late J.C."
7) The Father, Son, and Holy Ghost are not referred to as "Daddy, Junior and the Spook."
8) David slew Goliath, he did not "kick the sh*t out of him."
9) When David was hit by a rock and was knocked off his donkey; don't say he was "stoned off his ass."
10) We do not refer to the cross as the 'Big T.'
11) When Jesus broke the bread at the last supper he said, "Take this and eat it for it is my body." He did not say "Eat me."
12) The Virgin Mary is not called "Mary with the Cherry."
13) The recommended grace before a meal is not "Rub-A-Dub-Dub; thanks for the grub - Yay, God."
14) Next Sunday, there will be a taffy-pulling contest at St. Peter's, not a peter-pulling contest at St. Taffy's
Friday, December 4, 2009
How to Gain Self-Confidence
I thought I would help the shy crowd out a little bit with my own personal tips to gaining self confidence and becoming more open.
These are the tips:
1. One thing that always gets on my nerves is when my classmates start to make a point in class by saying "I'm not sure if this is right" or "this is probably wrong but"....Phrases like these basically invalidate your answer because if you are not even sure about what you are saying, why should anyone else believe it? It makes the teacher think that you are not sure of your own intelligence, and that is not a good sign. Even if you aren't sure if the answer is right, say it with pride and boldness. (Especially you business majors, the art of bullshitting is a very important characteristic to have. If you can't blab about anything and be confident about it, you are out of luck!)
2. Walk with confidence. Too many times I see kids walking with their head down staring at their feet. No one notices you this way. People think that you have a social problem. Pick your head up, be alert, and walk with an upright posture. I guarentee someone will notice!
3. Be friendly and social. Becoming more confident with yourself means you are at peace with who you are as a person. Saying goodmorning to janitors, random people in your building, and strangers is a good way of building self confidence. This shows you can be social with others.
4. Be Aggressive. If you want something, get it. Do not let people get in your way of your desires and ambitions. Dream big, shoot for the stars. Don't ever let someone tell you that you can not do something.
These are the tips:
1. One thing that always gets on my nerves is when my classmates start to make a point in class by saying "I'm not sure if this is right" or "this is probably wrong but"....Phrases like these basically invalidate your answer because if you are not even sure about what you are saying, why should anyone else believe it? It makes the teacher think that you are not sure of your own intelligence, and that is not a good sign. Even if you aren't sure if the answer is right, say it with pride and boldness. (Especially you business majors, the art of bullshitting is a very important characteristic to have. If you can't blab about anything and be confident about it, you are out of luck!)
2. Walk with confidence. Too many times I see kids walking with their head down staring at their feet. No one notices you this way. People think that you have a social problem. Pick your head up, be alert, and walk with an upright posture. I guarentee someone will notice!
3. Be friendly and social. Becoming more confident with yourself means you are at peace with who you are as a person. Saying goodmorning to janitors, random people in your building, and strangers is a good way of building self confidence. This shows you can be social with others.
4. Be Aggressive. If you want something, get it. Do not let people get in your way of your desires and ambitions. Dream big, shoot for the stars. Don't ever let someone tell you that you can not do something.
Thursday, December 3, 2009
25 Simple Steps to a More Perfect World
1. No more bathroom attendants. They're just creepy. And hell, no more charging money for stuff that used to be free. Now give us our little bag of peanuts, airlines.
2. Carpentry, plumbing, and electrical courses would be mandatory for all boys in middle school.
3. Scarlett Johansson would replace Jackson on the $20 bill.
4. Basketball players wouldn't be able to call a timeout as they're heading out of bounds. They'd need to be in total control. Come to think of it, timeouts would be banned entirely. Life doesn't have them.
5. All base runners would score on a ground-rule double.
6. All of the following would be tax deductible: TV sports packages; alcoholic beverages; mechanical timepieces; shoe shines; and all costs related to the pursuit of sex, up to and including Porsches.
7. Icing the kicker or free-throw shooter would be outlawed. Just play the damn game.
8. Caddies would be prohibited on the PGA Tour. No other athlete has a butler/shrink on the field with him. Conning out distances is a fundamental skill of the game; so is picking the correct club. We'd deep-six the 150-yard marker, too.
9. If you bathe your coach in Gatorade, you also forfeit the game.
10. Men would be permitted to admit uncertainty, and women would find this hot.
11. Movie reviewers would be forbidden to call a flick the funniest movie of the year until the following year.
12. Women would start with the climax of their stories, and then go back to fill in the details (if we ask).
13. If you setout to climb Mt. Hood wearing shorts and sandals, and then have to be rescued by 12 men, two helicopters, and a team of huskies, your marginal tax rate would be raised to 81 percent until you've repaid the cost of being an idiot.
14. All cable providers would carry a Salma Hayek channel.
15. Those little ketchup and mustard packets would be twice as big.
16. A 25-handicapper would not be allowed to pace off approach-shot yardage. (Just put the ball in the air, bucko.)
17. All gutters would self-clean.
18. Parents would strive to give their children self-reliance instead of self-esteem.
19. Singing "Happy Birthday" at the office (with or without cake) would result in immediate termination.
20. Every fifth year would be free of federal income taxes.
21. Volunteering to slather sunscreen on women in the park would finally be seen for what it is: community service in cancer prevention.
22. Dads would stop complaining that refs never call traveling.
23. Alternatively, refs would start to call traveling.
24. A 20-yard field goal would be worth 3 points, but a 50-yarder just 1. Try throwing the ball, coach!
25. Parent-teacher nights would come with nachos and tequila shooters.
Found this on a website, thought we could have a few laughs today....
2. Carpentry, plumbing, and electrical courses would be mandatory for all boys in middle school.
3. Scarlett Johansson would replace Jackson on the $20 bill.
4. Basketball players wouldn't be able to call a timeout as they're heading out of bounds. They'd need to be in total control. Come to think of it, timeouts would be banned entirely. Life doesn't have them.
5. All base runners would score on a ground-rule double.
6. All of the following would be tax deductible: TV sports packages; alcoholic beverages; mechanical timepieces; shoe shines; and all costs related to the pursuit of sex, up to and including Porsches.
7. Icing the kicker or free-throw shooter would be outlawed. Just play the damn game.
8. Caddies would be prohibited on the PGA Tour. No other athlete has a butler/shrink on the field with him. Conning out distances is a fundamental skill of the game; so is picking the correct club. We'd deep-six the 150-yard marker, too.
9. If you bathe your coach in Gatorade, you also forfeit the game.
10. Men would be permitted to admit uncertainty, and women would find this hot.
11. Movie reviewers would be forbidden to call a flick the funniest movie of the year until the following year.
12. Women would start with the climax of their stories, and then go back to fill in the details (if we ask).
13. If you setout to climb Mt. Hood wearing shorts and sandals, and then have to be rescued by 12 men, two helicopters, and a team of huskies, your marginal tax rate would be raised to 81 percent until you've repaid the cost of being an idiot.
14. All cable providers would carry a Salma Hayek channel.
15. Those little ketchup and mustard packets would be twice as big.
16. A 25-handicapper would not be allowed to pace off approach-shot yardage. (Just put the ball in the air, bucko.)
17. All gutters would self-clean.
18. Parents would strive to give their children self-reliance instead of self-esteem.
19. Singing "Happy Birthday" at the office (with or without cake) would result in immediate termination.
20. Every fifth year would be free of federal income taxes.
21. Volunteering to slather sunscreen on women in the park would finally be seen for what it is: community service in cancer prevention.
22. Dads would stop complaining that refs never call traveling.
23. Alternatively, refs would start to call traveling.
24. A 20-yard field goal would be worth 3 points, but a 50-yarder just 1. Try throwing the ball, coach!
25. Parent-teacher nights would come with nachos and tequila shooters.
Found this on a website, thought we could have a few laughs today....
Tuesday, December 1, 2009
Facebook!
Now now, your probably thinking I am going to bash Facebook because it is so distracting and whatnot, but truthfully, it does serve value. Besides keeping contact with friends and family who you do not see very often, Facebook is a great networking tool!
What I am here to blog about today is the dangers of facebook, and how it can get you in trouble if you do not take the proper precautionary steps to ensuring you are safe. First and foremost, the pictures. Yes, it is great to upload photos of what you and your friends did last weekend, but there is no need to make a profile picture of you funneling beers or hitting the game winning pong shot. You NEVER know who is watching. Teachers, administrators, police officers, detectives, employers, and parents may all be secretly following you, and you would never know. If you are seen drinking or smoking or any other activity that may raise questions about your character, it really ruins your personal reputation. Education majors listen up, because schools are known to complete a thorough investigation and background check when you apply for a teaching position, so make sure you filter your facebook.
Next, the status updates. What is the purpose of putting statuses like "can't wait to get fucked upppp tonightttttt" and "hungover" or "late night L ride". Reading these statuses makes me SICK, as there is NO need to be sharing that kind of information with everybody. If you are under 21, it is illegal, and it just puts a target on your chest for other people to see. Let's say there is someone who really just can't stand you, and so he goes on your facebook and prints pictures of you drinking and smoking and he mails them to your home for your parents to see. What is going to happen next? Your screwed! So lay off the vulgar language and obscene status updates please....
Also, be weary of who you accept as a friend. If you do not know them, forget them. Untag yourself from pictures you do not feel comfortable with being linked to your page, and also make sure your profile is locked to private, so only a certain number of people can have access to it.
Also this is a special shout out to my LADIES, please PLEASE PLEASE, there is absolutely no need for you to share your life on facebook. Do not use it to bash other people in your status updates, or give your daily rundown of what you are doing every minute of your life. It kind of gets annoying. Just an observation!
In world news today, PRESIDENT OBAMA ANNOUNCED HE WILL BE SENDING AROUND 30,000 MORE TROOPS TO AFGHANISTAN WITHIN THE NEXT 6 MONTHS, AND HE PLANS ON ENDING THE WAR IN AFGHANISTAN WITHIN THE NEXT 3 YEARS.
What I am here to blog about today is the dangers of facebook, and how it can get you in trouble if you do not take the proper precautionary steps to ensuring you are safe. First and foremost, the pictures. Yes, it is great to upload photos of what you and your friends did last weekend, but there is no need to make a profile picture of you funneling beers or hitting the game winning pong shot. You NEVER know who is watching. Teachers, administrators, police officers, detectives, employers, and parents may all be secretly following you, and you would never know. If you are seen drinking or smoking or any other activity that may raise questions about your character, it really ruins your personal reputation. Education majors listen up, because schools are known to complete a thorough investigation and background check when you apply for a teaching position, so make sure you filter your facebook.
Next, the status updates. What is the purpose of putting statuses like "can't wait to get fucked upppp tonightttttt" and "hungover" or "late night L ride". Reading these statuses makes me SICK, as there is NO need to be sharing that kind of information with everybody. If you are under 21, it is illegal, and it just puts a target on your chest for other people to see. Let's say there is someone who really just can't stand you, and so he goes on your facebook and prints pictures of you drinking and smoking and he mails them to your home for your parents to see. What is going to happen next? Your screwed! So lay off the vulgar language and obscene status updates please....
Also, be weary of who you accept as a friend. If you do not know them, forget them. Untag yourself from pictures you do not feel comfortable with being linked to your page, and also make sure your profile is locked to private, so only a certain number of people can have access to it.
Also this is a special shout out to my LADIES, please PLEASE PLEASE, there is absolutely no need for you to share your life on facebook. Do not use it to bash other people in your status updates, or give your daily rundown of what you are doing every minute of your life. It kind of gets annoying. Just an observation!
In world news today, PRESIDENT OBAMA ANNOUNCED HE WILL BE SENDING AROUND 30,000 MORE TROOPS TO AFGHANISTAN WITHIN THE NEXT 6 MONTHS, AND HE PLANS ON ENDING THE WAR IN AFGHANISTAN WITHIN THE NEXT 3 YEARS.
Sunday, November 29, 2009
Thanksgiving Week Update
I would like to begin by wishing everyone a belated Happy Thanksgiving, and I hope everyone enjoyed this mini holiday vacation, I know I did! I apologize for taking a break from my blog, but when a busy time like Thanksgiving comes around, my number one priority is always my family, and I wanted to enjoy my time with them as much as possible. I had a terrific break, seeing friends that I hadn't seen since the summer, and being with family memebers as well. Honestly, I am not ready to pack up and go back to Seton Hall, where I will be working non-stop for the next three weeks in preperations for finals, but thats for another blog. I am ready to get back to work and continue to share my thoughts with my followers!
I would like to touch upon a few things regarding this past week. First off, BLACK FRIDAY!!!! I know most of you guys woke up in the wee hours of the night to rush to the mall to get doorbusters at stores like Bestbuy, WalMart, and Target, but it really is not necessary to kill yourself on the busiest shopping day of the year. Early indications are that sales increased from last years Black Friday, and that is a positive sign for our recovering economy as it shows more consumers were willing to spend, which in turn boosts sales and revenue. If you really think about it, the waking up early, difficulty in finding a parking spot, and crowd upon crowd at these stores is not worth the few bucks you save. Your satisfaction does not exceed the work you put into shopping and dealing with the extra nonsense.
Regarding Thanksgiving, it is one of my favorite times of the year (not only because of the food), but it really stresses the importance of FAMILY, and how at the end of the day, they will always be there for you. I am thankful to have a wonderful Italian family who is willing to do anything to help me, and I would not want it any other way. I want my readers to tell their parents they really appreciate the job they are doing raising them, or call your grandmother or grandfather and tell him or her that you love them. Little deeds like this really do make people feel good and it goes a long way. I have a grandmother who is 85 and a grandfather who is 87 years old, and I know they appreciate it anytime I call them.
Whats on tap? I hope you college students are ready for the most hectic time of our lives! FINALS! Get well rested and be prepared. Christmas shoppers,spend wisely, look for deals. Check websites for hidden coupons and look for shipping deals everywhere. I'll be back tomorrow!
-Stefano
I would like to touch upon a few things regarding this past week. First off, BLACK FRIDAY!!!! I know most of you guys woke up in the wee hours of the night to rush to the mall to get doorbusters at stores like Bestbuy, WalMart, and Target, but it really is not necessary to kill yourself on the busiest shopping day of the year. Early indications are that sales increased from last years Black Friday, and that is a positive sign for our recovering economy as it shows more consumers were willing to spend, which in turn boosts sales and revenue. If you really think about it, the waking up early, difficulty in finding a parking spot, and crowd upon crowd at these stores is not worth the few bucks you save. Your satisfaction does not exceed the work you put into shopping and dealing with the extra nonsense.
Regarding Thanksgiving, it is one of my favorite times of the year (not only because of the food), but it really stresses the importance of FAMILY, and how at the end of the day, they will always be there for you. I am thankful to have a wonderful Italian family who is willing to do anything to help me, and I would not want it any other way. I want my readers to tell their parents they really appreciate the job they are doing raising them, or call your grandmother or grandfather and tell him or her that you love them. Little deeds like this really do make people feel good and it goes a long way. I have a grandmother who is 85 and a grandfather who is 87 years old, and I know they appreciate it anytime I call them.
Whats on tap? I hope you college students are ready for the most hectic time of our lives! FINALS! Get well rested and be prepared. Christmas shoppers,spend wisely, look for deals. Check websites for hidden coupons and look for shipping deals everywhere. I'll be back tomorrow!
-Stefano
Saturday, November 21, 2009
Thursday, November 19, 2009
Time Management
A key to success in life and college more specifically is how you handle your time. Along with organization, time management is essential in being productive and an effective student. If you feel like you are constantly pressed for time, and wish that the days had 40 hours in them, then listen up.
I recommend writing a to do list every morning that you wake up. Whether it is homework assignments, errands, leisure/activities, or studying, writing it down allows you to see what your day is going to look like so that you can plan accordingly. Make sure you allow yourself a reasonable amount of time for each item, for instance of youput down going to the gym, do not write down 15 min, be more reasonable and say 45 min-1 hour. Hopefully this will help you accomplish more throughout the day.
Also, avoid DISTRACTIONS! One of the biggest anti-time management vehicles is FACEBOOK. Sure facebook is great to keep in touch with friends, but not while you have a paper to write or an exam to study for! Facebook is probably the most common distraction for every young student, so if you can stay away while you are working, hats off! I know I have trouble with it as well. Also, avoid having music or the tv on in your dorm, as this loses concentration. When you say you are going to do something, do it, don't waste any meaningful time! Remember, TIME IS PRECIOUS!
Time management also has to do with giving yourself adequate time to complete your tasks like I mentioned above. Waiting until the last second to complete an assignment is ludicrous, as you will only be more stressed and pressed for time. If you know you have a paper due, start it early so you can work at your own pace instead of rushing through it. You want to be able to go to sleep at night knowing that you accomplished a lot in your day, and that you are satisfied with the work you put in.
Special Shout out to the New York Knicks for winning their 2nd game of the season last night. Hey, at least we are better than the Nets.
I recommend writing a to do list every morning that you wake up. Whether it is homework assignments, errands, leisure/activities, or studying, writing it down allows you to see what your day is going to look like so that you can plan accordingly. Make sure you allow yourself a reasonable amount of time for each item, for instance of youput down going to the gym, do not write down 15 min, be more reasonable and say 45 min-1 hour. Hopefully this will help you accomplish more throughout the day.
Also, avoid DISTRACTIONS! One of the biggest anti-time management vehicles is FACEBOOK. Sure facebook is great to keep in touch with friends, but not while you have a paper to write or an exam to study for! Facebook is probably the most common distraction for every young student, so if you can stay away while you are working, hats off! I know I have trouble with it as well. Also, avoid having music or the tv on in your dorm, as this loses concentration. When you say you are going to do something, do it, don't waste any meaningful time! Remember, TIME IS PRECIOUS!
Time management also has to do with giving yourself adequate time to complete your tasks like I mentioned above. Waiting until the last second to complete an assignment is ludicrous, as you will only be more stressed and pressed for time. If you know you have a paper due, start it early so you can work at your own pace instead of rushing through it. You want to be able to go to sleep at night knowing that you accomplished a lot in your day, and that you are satisfied with the work you put in.
Special Shout out to the New York Knicks for winning their 2nd game of the season last night. Hey, at least we are better than the Nets.
Tuesday, November 17, 2009
Sleep = GOLDEN
If you are constantly falling asleep in class and staying up until the wee hours of the morning to write papers and study, listen up! My father has always preached the importance of sleep, and now here I am doing the same thing. For all teenagers and college students, we are under a tremendous amount of stress. Exams, papers, classes, clubs, sports, exercise; its a lot to handle. One of the best remedies for stress and fatigue is sleep, because it gives your body and mind a chance to heal and recharge for the next day. Now, some of you can fully function on only a few hours of sleep, but that is NOT healthy. Neither is drinking 3 or 4 cups of coffee or energy drinks a day to get by, or taking things like aderol. So what is a good amount of sleep a typical 17-21 year old should get every night? The answer is 8. 8 hours a day, at the minimum, is considered a good nights rest, and if you can get 10, you are in even better shape.
You will see the difference. Try getting 8 hours a dayfor one week. See how it feels and how you react to it. Also, listen carefully. Getting 8 hours of sleep does not mean you can go to bed at 3AM and wake up at 11AM and call it 8 solid hours, the 8 hour method only works if you go to bed early, around 11 PM or so. The best rest you get is earlier on during the night. Everything I am saying can be read in medical journals and various websites, so I take no credit. Getting rest is IMPORTANT! I promise you will feel less stressed and more focused with the 8 hour a day method.
Thats all for today...(GO JAYHAWKS!)
You will see the difference. Try getting 8 hours a dayfor one week. See how it feels and how you react to it. Also, listen carefully. Getting 8 hours of sleep does not mean you can go to bed at 3AM and wake up at 11AM and call it 8 solid hours, the 8 hour method only works if you go to bed early, around 11 PM or so. The best rest you get is earlier on during the night. Everything I am saying can be read in medical journals and various websites, so I take no credit. Getting rest is IMPORTANT! I promise you will feel less stressed and more focused with the 8 hour a day method.
Thats all for today...(GO JAYHAWKS!)
Monday, November 16, 2009
College Isn't For Everyone
I have spoken a lot about college, majors, and the decisions that you make in college and how they shape your future. But college is not for everyone. There are many options for the masses. For today's post, I encourage you to read this article that is posted about jobs which do not require a college degree.
http://www.finance.yahoo.com/career-work/article/108014/10-jobs-with-high-pay-and-minimal-schooling-required.html?mod=career-salary_negotiation
http://www.finance.yahoo.com/career-work/article/108014/10-jobs-with-high-pay-and-minimal-schooling-required.html?mod=career-salary_negotiation
Sunday, November 15, 2009
Almost There!
As the week before Thanksgiving is about to begin, and the smell of pumpkin pie and turkey is filling our nostrils, lets take some time to pat ourselves on the back. We have made it through almost 3 months of the enduring stress that we know as college. Endless papers, exams, and hours upon hours of studying. We can see the finish line, we are rounding the home stretch, as there is close to 1 month to go, and only about 3 more weeks of classes before finals begin.
The Thanksgiving Break is a tool used to recharge our batteries, catch up on sleep, and mentally prepare ourselves for the most hectic short period of time that we have ever experienced. FINALS. Yes, I said it, FINALS. Most final exams are worth in the ballpark of 30-50% of the final grade, so doing well on the final is extremely important. You want to make sure you are well rested because there will be a tremendous amount of studying, paper writing, stress, and coffee drinking to get you through the tough times.
However, if you are prepared, I believe you will make it. Study until you can not study any more because we only have one responsibility as students; to do well at school. Treat studying like its your job, and do not stop until you are satisfied with the work you have put in. You have done well up until this point, there is no need to crack now. You know what methods of studying work best for you, now it is time to put it to the test. Do NOT cram, it will not really be beneficial to your learning.
Tip of the Day: Review Review Review. My father used to ask me if I had homework. I would respond and say no dad, I did it in school. His answer to that comment would always be, "you should review your notes". And to this day, I always try to review my notes, even If I do not have homework in that particular class, or a test or a quiz. Reviewing your notes and the material keeps it fresh in your head, that way when you study for exams, you do not have to cram. Even if it is going over your notes for 10-15 minutes a day, it will help, trust me!
The Thanksgiving Break is a tool used to recharge our batteries, catch up on sleep, and mentally prepare ourselves for the most hectic short period of time that we have ever experienced. FINALS. Yes, I said it, FINALS. Most final exams are worth in the ballpark of 30-50% of the final grade, so doing well on the final is extremely important. You want to make sure you are well rested because there will be a tremendous amount of studying, paper writing, stress, and coffee drinking to get you through the tough times.
However, if you are prepared, I believe you will make it. Study until you can not study any more because we only have one responsibility as students; to do well at school. Treat studying like its your job, and do not stop until you are satisfied with the work you have put in. You have done well up until this point, there is no need to crack now. You know what methods of studying work best for you, now it is time to put it to the test. Do NOT cram, it will not really be beneficial to your learning.
Tip of the Day: Review Review Review. My father used to ask me if I had homework. I would respond and say no dad, I did it in school. His answer to that comment would always be, "you should review your notes". And to this day, I always try to review my notes, even If I do not have homework in that particular class, or a test or a quiz. Reviewing your notes and the material keeps it fresh in your head, that way when you study for exams, you do not have to cram. Even if it is going over your notes for 10-15 minutes a day, it will help, trust me!
Saturday, November 14, 2009
Business Majors: Its All About Networking
Attention to all business majors,
the art of social networking has never been so important than in this era. Due to the weak job market and recovering economy, it is almost impossible to get a job in the financial sector unless you "know somebody". To "know somebody" simply refers to a friend you met a school, someone's father, one of your own relatives, or even a school alumni member. Not everyone is blessed with having a daddy who works on Wall Street, so to get that job, social networking is the key.
Here are some networking tips:
1. contact your school's career center- establishing a solid line of communication with this service is important, because they have the resources to see what kind of internships are available.
2. ALUMNI! - ask around your school, there has to be some sort of alumni center. You will be surprised to see how many alumni work in the business industry and can aid you in finding any type of work.
3. Always be Social- I know this sounds easy, but for some people it really isnt. I recommend a book called Never Eat Alone, it is all about networking and learning how to talk to people. If you are friendly, it leads to connections, trust me. Always keep your eyes and ears open.
4. Make a facebook- I advise, don't be the kid who puts pictures of them funneling a beer, but making a facebook allows you to keep in touch with old friends, and connect with friends you might have just met.
5. Follow Up- If you meet someone whom you believe is a viable contact, shoot an email their way, just so they know you are interested in their profession and so they know you are serious about working in their field. They appreciate things like that.
If you can't network, your going to find it difficult to not only land your first job, but advance in the ranks in your profession. Most people do not stay with the same company for more than a few years, so you are going to have to rely on your contacts and networking to get jobs!
the art of social networking has never been so important than in this era. Due to the weak job market and recovering economy, it is almost impossible to get a job in the financial sector unless you "know somebody". To "know somebody" simply refers to a friend you met a school, someone's father, one of your own relatives, or even a school alumni member. Not everyone is blessed with having a daddy who works on Wall Street, so to get that job, social networking is the key.
Here are some networking tips:
1. contact your school's career center- establishing a solid line of communication with this service is important, because they have the resources to see what kind of internships are available.
2. ALUMNI! - ask around your school, there has to be some sort of alumni center. You will be surprised to see how many alumni work in the business industry and can aid you in finding any type of work.
3. Always be Social- I know this sounds easy, but for some people it really isnt. I recommend a book called Never Eat Alone, it is all about networking and learning how to talk to people. If you are friendly, it leads to connections, trust me. Always keep your eyes and ears open.
4. Make a facebook- I advise, don't be the kid who puts pictures of them funneling a beer, but making a facebook allows you to keep in touch with old friends, and connect with friends you might have just met.
5. Follow Up- If you meet someone whom you believe is a viable contact, shoot an email their way, just so they know you are interested in their profession and so they know you are serious about working in their field. They appreciate things like that.
If you can't network, your going to find it difficult to not only land your first job, but advance in the ranks in your profession. Most people do not stay with the same company for more than a few years, so you are going to have to rely on your contacts and networking to get jobs!
Thursday, November 12, 2009
Majors, Minors, MBA's & All!
What do I major in? I have no idea what to do with my life! HELP!
These are the cries for help by some college students (especially freshman), but there is no need to panic! Statistics show that 33% of all freshmen enrolled in American universities are undecided when it comes to their major or field of study. Now, although that is 1/3 of the entire freshmen class, it really just shows that kids do not know what really interests them yet, and for only being 18 years old, that is totally fine.
I do however advise this to all freshmen: For those who have yet to declare, this could prolong your education. Without a declared major, it will take longer to complete the major course requirements because your not starting those until your sophomore or junior year, so if you can declare as early as possible, it definitely helps.
Think about what interests you. Is it learning about the human body (nursing, physical therapy, biology), or how money effects everyday life (finance, economics), or maybe even art (art history, drawing, graphic design). There is a major out there for everyone, and you will learn to know what you love and don't love. The top majors in most universities are always business, education, some sort of science, and political science. These are all excellent choices because they represent professions with job stability (ex. teachers, nurses, accountants, lawyers). Thinking about what you want to do for the rest of your life can be extremely scary, but just know there are hundreds of thousands of kids in the same boat as you! No need to worry. The thing about college is, there are so many choices!
Some people will tell you pick something that is going to pay a ton of money, or that will guarantee you success. The one thing you can't forget about is your own happiness. Sure the BMW and mansion are great, but after a while, those material goods just get boring. And each time you gain another valuable item, your level of satisfaction only decreases. In the end, you have to be happy with your job because it really becomes your life most of the time. I know making millions wont make me happy, but having a family will. Just some things to think about..
Tip of the Day: If you have decided on a major already, make sure you enjoy it for what it is. There is always time to change! If you are still considering your options, take your time and really think about what your passion is. I am sure there is something out there for you!
These are the cries for help by some college students (especially freshman), but there is no need to panic! Statistics show that 33% of all freshmen enrolled in American universities are undecided when it comes to their major or field of study. Now, although that is 1/3 of the entire freshmen class, it really just shows that kids do not know what really interests them yet, and for only being 18 years old, that is totally fine.
I do however advise this to all freshmen: For those who have yet to declare, this could prolong your education. Without a declared major, it will take longer to complete the major course requirements because your not starting those until your sophomore or junior year, so if you can declare as early as possible, it definitely helps.
Think about what interests you. Is it learning about the human body (nursing, physical therapy, biology), or how money effects everyday life (finance, economics), or maybe even art (art history, drawing, graphic design). There is a major out there for everyone, and you will learn to know what you love and don't love. The top majors in most universities are always business, education, some sort of science, and political science. These are all excellent choices because they represent professions with job stability (ex. teachers, nurses, accountants, lawyers). Thinking about what you want to do for the rest of your life can be extremely scary, but just know there are hundreds of thousands of kids in the same boat as you! No need to worry. The thing about college is, there are so many choices!
Some people will tell you pick something that is going to pay a ton of money, or that will guarantee you success. The one thing you can't forget about is your own happiness. Sure the BMW and mansion are great, but after a while, those material goods just get boring. And each time you gain another valuable item, your level of satisfaction only decreases. In the end, you have to be happy with your job because it really becomes your life most of the time. I know making millions wont make me happy, but having a family will. Just some things to think about..
Tip of the Day: If you have decided on a major already, make sure you enjoy it for what it is. There is always time to change! If you are still considering your options, take your time and really think about what your passion is. I am sure there is something out there for you!
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
College Scheduling
This next post was inspired by Connor Laverty and Andrew Wampler of the SHU!
As my two buddies at school were going over their course options for the spring semester, it got me thinking of this next post. Most universities have things called core requirements, school requirements, and major requirements when it comes to credits and classes. Some of you are probably saying what is all of this? Let me break it down.
The University Core is what every single student in the university is required to take, usually your English, a specified elective or two, basic math, and other core classes. At Seton Hall, the university core consists of 6 classes, or 16 total credits.
Next is the specific school requirements, which is the school in the university that you are enrolled in. For instance, since I am a business major, I belong to the Business School, and Nursing students belong to the Nursing SChool, and Diplomacy students belong to the school of Diplomacy and so on. Each one of these schools have requirements as well. The Business School at Seton Hall has 45 credits of classes (or 15 classes) that are required before graduation, ranging from the basic accounting course to marketing to finance.
Finally, there are major requirements. So if you are majoring in biology or calculus, there are specific courses geared for that particular major. Most majors require between 18-30 credits.
It is essential to comprehend the differences between these requirements, as it can get both frustrating and challenging. Make sure you talk to your guidance councelor or academic advisor to ensure you are on solid footing and making progress to complete your requirements. Who knows, you may even have time for some free electives! I recommend getting the core and school stuff out of the way first, because those are the least interesting courses in my opinion. That way, when your a junior and senior, you can take basket weaving and scuba diving!
Lesson of the Day: Email your advisor today. Even if its just to say hello or ask about your schedule. It is a good idea to keep a flowing communication network with your advisor, as they know most about the university and its academic program.
Happy Veterans Day!
As my two buddies at school were going over their course options for the spring semester, it got me thinking of this next post. Most universities have things called core requirements, school requirements, and major requirements when it comes to credits and classes. Some of you are probably saying what is all of this? Let me break it down.
The University Core is what every single student in the university is required to take, usually your English, a specified elective or two, basic math, and other core classes. At Seton Hall, the university core consists of 6 classes, or 16 total credits.
Next is the specific school requirements, which is the school in the university that you are enrolled in. For instance, since I am a business major, I belong to the Business School, and Nursing students belong to the Nursing SChool, and Diplomacy students belong to the school of Diplomacy and so on. Each one of these schools have requirements as well. The Business School at Seton Hall has 45 credits of classes (or 15 classes) that are required before graduation, ranging from the basic accounting course to marketing to finance.
Finally, there are major requirements. So if you are majoring in biology or calculus, there are specific courses geared for that particular major. Most majors require between 18-30 credits.
It is essential to comprehend the differences between these requirements, as it can get both frustrating and challenging. Make sure you talk to your guidance councelor or academic advisor to ensure you are on solid footing and making progress to complete your requirements. Who knows, you may even have time for some free electives! I recommend getting the core and school stuff out of the way first, because those are the least interesting courses in my opinion. That way, when your a junior and senior, you can take basket weaving and scuba diving!
Lesson of the Day: Email your advisor today. Even if its just to say hello or ask about your schedule. It is a good idea to keep a flowing communication network with your advisor, as they know most about the university and its academic program.
Happy Veterans Day!
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
Private School vs State School
Unfortunately, Americans live in a world of inflation, and something that effects every college student is rising tuition costs. Most private schools fall in the $35000-45000 per year tuition range. With our economy in shambles, and the unemployment rate hovering near 10%, many households simply can not afford to send their students to private schools. For this reason, applications to state universities have shot up 20% over the last 3 years. There has been such a high demand for state schools, that it is sometimes more difficult to gain acceptance than a private school. Don't get me wrong, even state schools have increased tuition 6.5% over the last year, or roughly $1300. But if your paying $20,000 a year to go to Montclair compared to $43,000 per for FDU, your basically getting the same education (if not better) from Montclair, and saving yourself over $20,000.
There seems to be a negative connotation revolved around attending a state school. As it relates to New Jersey, some of the best schools are state universities (TCNJ, Rutgers, Montclair, Rutgers Newark), and even outperform private schools such as Seton Hall, FDU, Drew, and Monmouth. Now most students pay for their own schooling, so unless they want to be liable for debt when they graduate, I fully endorse a state school education during these tough economic times. High School seniors pay attention: It is what you do with your education, not where you get it from. If you do well at school, you will be succesful. Although having the Princeton degree seems nice and flashly, it will only get your foot in the door. Your personality and intelligence is what gets you far.
In conclusion, college tuition is a major concern for all students. REMEMBER TO APPLY TO ALL SCHOLARSHIPS POSSIBLE, IT IS FREE MONEY!!!!!! Fill out your FAFSA, and go from there. IF you can attend a private school, Congratulations. If it is out of your price range, it isn't the end of the world.
Signing off,
Stefano
There seems to be a negative connotation revolved around attending a state school. As it relates to New Jersey, some of the best schools are state universities (TCNJ, Rutgers, Montclair, Rutgers Newark), and even outperform private schools such as Seton Hall, FDU, Drew, and Monmouth. Now most students pay for their own schooling, so unless they want to be liable for debt when they graduate, I fully endorse a state school education during these tough economic times. High School seniors pay attention: It is what you do with your education, not where you get it from. If you do well at school, you will be succesful. Although having the Princeton degree seems nice and flashly, it will only get your foot in the door. Your personality and intelligence is what gets you far.
In conclusion, college tuition is a major concern for all students. REMEMBER TO APPLY TO ALL SCHOLARSHIPS POSSIBLE, IT IS FREE MONEY!!!!!! Fill out your FAFSA, and go from there. IF you can attend a private school, Congratulations. If it is out of your price range, it isn't the end of the world.
Signing off,
Stefano
Monday, November 9, 2009
Welcome!
Welcome to my blog: Teenage Economics. I have decided to start a website in which I will give daily advice on the stresses and joys of being a teenager (or more importantly, a college student) in an economy which is currently under construction. You will find tips on personal finance, money, college problems, daily living, and how the economy effects us on a personal level. I welcome any suggestions to my blog, and I hope I can educate many of my peers. My first post will go up tomorrow!
Thank You,
Stefano Carmelo D'Urso
Thank You,
Stefano Carmelo D'Urso
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